The main objective of my services is help you make it through the first few dates, but once having done so, there is some important information I try to share with anyone who will listen. It’s such simple yet poignant knowledge, the likes of which will catapult any budding relationship into a potentially long-lasting, happy and healthy one.

I’m talking about the Five Love Languages people! When I heard 94.5 The Beat radio station giving this topic coverage I was thrilled! Finally the word was out about the 5 basic things which make people feel most loved. Gag me I know…but seriously, if you’re at all interested in getting into the psyche of your partner, here is some easy information which will have them wondering “how’d you do that?!”.

What Are the Five Love Languages?:
The five love languages are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch. According to Dr. Chapman, we all feel love and give love to others through these five different love languages, but we all have a primary love language in which we best feel loved.

Who Is Behind the Five Love Languages?:
Dr. Gary Chapman is the author of more than twenty books, including the best-selling Five Love Languages Series. After conducting over thirty years of marriage counseling, has concluded that there are basically five different ways that people show and understand emotional love. He has traveled the world hosting marriage seminars and has appeared on radio and television numerous times.
To read more visit: http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

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So just when Vancouver singles thought they had their “A” game perfected in the flirting arena, along comes “flirtexting” also known as “sexting”. Writing mere copy in either an email or a text message, and you’ll undoubtedly get deleted. Emoticons and symbols now set the tone for any type of correspondence – and that goes doubly when you’re in the dating scene. Racy “romantic” flirtexting is the freshest way to actually BE fresh. Things such as: ‘French’ (French kiss), ‘IWSN’ (I want sex now), ‘<3′ (heart), or ‘LOML’ (love of my life)…are what gets the dating game fast tracked and into technological second base.
Fox News recently reported that, according to Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz, authors of Flirtexting, text messaging is the most widely used mobile data service on the planet.
But as with any dating games, there are rules:
1. Timing is everything
While it can be tempting to respond right away, being overly eager can be a turn off. This is especially true for those just getting to know each other. Rein in your enthusiasm from time to time, using time as a tease in responding to certain text messages (TMs). This makes you appear laid back and easy-going. This increases the perception that you’re fun to hang out with, and more…
2. Texting has a curfew
Know that if you TM somebody after 10 pm, it’s considered a late-night booty call.
3. Don’t beat around the bush
TMs can be easily misunderstood. People like them for the fact they’re succinct and direct. You want to flirt, and with that hint. Just don’t be cryptic. These are supposed to be time-saving titillations.
4. Don’t drink and text
Getting drunk equals getting stupid. And while it can be funny, it’s not so sexy. So stick with sober messages.
5. Avoid breaking major news via text
Texting should not involve first professions of love, marriage proposals or the breaking of bad news.
6. Discretion is the best option
If you’re sexting more than one person, do not leave your phone out while on a date. Do not check your phone in front of a date. Turn off your phone if you find yourself having a ’sleepover’.
7. Proofread
Any TMs involving sexual encounters, especially those complemented by racy pictures, need to be double-checked. They should be sent to the intended receiver.

I hope you read and study these 7 rules thoroughly, there inevitably WILL be a test

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Invert the term “dating professionals” and you have what we’ve truly become… a society of professional daters. We have our checklist memorized, our desires detailed and our chemistry meters finely tuned. And that, gentlemen, is why it’s imperative to show up with you’re A-Game in full swing. As they say: don’t hate the player, hate the game. A lot of men are just wishing they could be IN the game. When it comes to matters of the heart, size does in fact matter. The Vancouver dating scene has witnessed a lot of  ”tin men” who have lost heart in ever finding “love”, or at the very least, make it to the second date.The size of your heart lends itself to lasting abilities, the style of your jeans simply gets you past the first drink!

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