I embrace the fact that every death brings with it new life. I’m not talking the physical death of another human being, I’m referring to the death of a relationship, or job, or living situation etc. Death is likely the scariest thing anyone has to face, but once you’ve experienced the re-birth it brings with it, you begin to welcome death as the natural progression to life.

Over the years I’ve had various relationships and living situations, and looking back I regret none. Each of them taught me lessons and helped me grow as an individual.

In addition, I’ve had careers that I sold out entirely to, pass away. Devastation was my initial shock process, but once that wake turned into an awakening, I thanked “the powers that be” in this universe for giving me the gift of freedom.

Sometimes if we don’t have the strength to walk away from something we shouldn’t be in any longer, something will happen to force us out of that situation. In those moments some people would ask “why” and expect and immediate response…I say wait for it.

Not everything will have immediate answers, or realizations, or betterment of life. Sometimes we’ll be left asking “why” for years to come. But instead of sitting on that question, we should be dusting ourselves off and discovering the next open door.

Every death in life is a wake up call to live more FULLY, PRESENTLY and ACCURATELY to your calling. Don’t be fooled by death or loss. It’s not the end …it’s the beginning of something new.

So the next time a circumstantial death happens in your life, go through the steps of remorse, and then anticipate the new life it will present you with. Fate is when preparedness and circumstance meet. Allow death to be your unveiling of new life…and when you finally get to that new life …throw a party …any (re)birthing deserves one ☺

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I was recently complimented on my calm demeanor, and I always appreciate a sincere compliment that reflects my true person. Authentic people who know who they are and what they represent are a comfort and inspiration to hang out with. They don’t expect you to be anything more than who you are, but at the same token – they inspire you to excel at being your best self by simply accepting who that is.

Growth is imperative in life, so I’m not talking about staying stagnant in your “lack” …but rather excelling at being the best YOU you can be. (insert Army logo here :p)

When someone validates a calm, introspective demeanor instead of being threatened by the lack of energy or enthusiasm they personally might require, is simply someone who themselves are comfortable with their own authentic authenticity.

I think, unfortunately, too many people white wash their personalities and adjust their colouring chameleon style, depending on who they’re with. Why? I guess as the ultimate acceptance ploy. Again …why? If the people you hang out with, or work with, can’t accept the beauty of individuality …why would you then lessen yourself to someone who clearly hasn’t grown in their own evolutionary process?

I know there is a certain song and dance in life that is required to be socially conscious and not inept, but if you shy away from being you, you won’t be surrounded by the people intended to support that “you”.

I would never want my son to be anything other than who he’s intended to be. Himself. Watching that person grow and transpire is beautiful. Ensuring that I’m honing in to his gifts and abilities is imperative. Making sure that no one and nothing is squelching his growing personality it paramount. And encouraging him to always be true to himself and not change for anyone, is challenging.

Children are your truest test in authentic authenticity. They can sniff out a faker better than a bloodhound to criminals, and they won’t have it. Sometimes it takes a simple mind to reveal a simple truth…and the simple truth is …is authentic authenticity is your yellow brick road to your best YOU!

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Finding ones centre can be a life long search for that seemingly middle-of-nowhere inner place. I would venture to say very few people even look inside as they are too greatly distracted by the outside world.

When we aren’t centered we get off balance easily. Anger, fear, resentment …all those negative emotions can pop up because we’re not focused and fearless. Reflecting on what makes us innately “us”, the inner core of yourself, is what will get you through this crazy thing called life.

One of my best friends is going through one of the worst situations of her life, and hearing the hardships she’s having to endure is so reminiscent of various life lessons I’ve also gone through. Hers are accentuated with children and a marriage license, but regardless of the outward, the inward still remains a lesson in “centre”

Looking from the outside in its always easier to see the root of the problem, but no matter the problem the root is always fear. All negative emotions stem from fear, and once people realize that they can, or rather should, address that fear and embrace the steps needed to overtake it – they will then regain centre.

Fear is considered, in religious sectors, to be a spirit. It infiltrates your very being and consumes you. Counteracting it with love, joy and a sound mind is the antidote to ridding yourself of fear.

As with all things, easier said than done.

Knowledge is power though, and the application of knowledge is wisdom …so learn, embrace, grow. When you’re lost, return to centre. When you’re angry. Return to centre. When you’re sad …you guessed it…

Return to centre. Repeat.

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