There are those who peacock (men who strut around wagin’ their tail feather), and then there are those who amble into any given joint, neck muscles as big as your thigh, grabbing girls by the arm, grunting something similar to “me take you home”. This is known as Gorilla Pimpin…tell your friends.

Oh, and did I mention girls fall for it? Ah yes. Bring a dominant male into the room and the ladies, they will swoon.

However, there is a trick to Gorilla Pimpin’…as with Peackocking or Bad Boy Behaviour …these all fall into the genre of self-induced “I’m number one” mentality. It’s not the most attractive quality an individual can possess, but again, I will admit – it gets the girls.

When deciding who (or what) you want to become, also take into consideration who (or what) you will attract and the outcome of that potential scenario.

Putting on an image is doable, taking on a persona is attainable, and both are even maintainable for a time… but in the end what is it going to matter? This type of behaviour is all a façade, which eventually…fades.

Oh yes…but all those ladies you’ll land. Well you will land them, but you will also likely lose them once you both shed your outer shells.

Living consciously is a pretty cool existence. You end up surrounded by people who actually care about your core. Gorilla Pimpin’ is a barbaric, ice age antic …lets evolve people. Please.

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…could not be any further from the truth.

I just finished telling you that you need to keep your feelings at bay while checking out the potential dating scene. Now I’m here to tell you, that once a relationship ensues… CARE!

Success in any genre is about moving from failure to failure without any loss of enthusiasm. If you’re in a relationship timidly hoping not to get hurt or not fully participating because you’re trying to safeguard yourself from the pain of a potential loss…well stop. The only way you’re going to feel fully alive, fulfilled and have no regrets about a relationship, is if you give it your all.

That isn’t to say give more than you’re capable of giving (or losing), but by all means DIVE IN.

Fear causes so many crippling constraints, and so many people miss out on a fulfilled life because of it.

Here’s a challenge, do something DAILY which scares you. Soon you’ll discover that your fearless…

♥ LIVE ♥ LOVE ♥ LAUGH ♥

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Ok you squishy, emotional, fall-hard types…this one’s for you. Having “game” isn’t just about being a bad boy/girl, it’s about being somewhat emotionally unavailable. This is not to say you shouldn’t have emotions, but rather that you should be keeping them in check. Falling too hard too fast before you even get past the first layer of a person is just plain infatuation. If you put someone on a pedestal while they’re still preaching from the pulpit, well you’re just given them power they don’t have the right to yet.

Be realistic, and keep the romantic in you at bay until you have actually seen at least a glimpse of someone’s core. Otherwise you’re falling for the shell, and not the shi* which is usually well hidden for a good few weeks to few months!

I’m a fan of multi-dating…after all, dating is a numbers game and you have to sift through a few in order to get to the “one”. The whole “one at a time” route not only takes a lot of time, but it also creates an environment where you’re likely investing more than you should right out of the gate.

Keep in mind I said multi-DATING, not multi-DOING. Have respect. Fill in the masses as to your dating agenda. Until the exclusivity talk is had, I think we’re all free agents. However, have respect for others’ feelings because simply put – that makes you a worthwhile person.

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